I have encountered about three women, whose marriages did not work out, sometimes after 20 years, who became lesbians. They even started to look like dykes. One I went to high school with.
In every case, I repeat again, their marriages failed.
Ominously, they also had odd relationships with their parents, mostly with their fathers. Sometimes the relationships weren't bad, but too good. They idealized their fathers, which meant no man could measure up to their fantasies. So they ended up with women. And every of them was in their late forties and early fifties.
The last one who turned into one of those situational lesbians got divorced and ended up living in a crummy studio apartment and being a substitute teacher. She once asked me to unplug her sink and when I was in there put her hand on my back. I know what that meant. I wasn't interested.
It's not many women who turn out like this. But it certainly does seem to be associated with with some oddball relationships with the father and unfulfilled romantic relationships with men.
I asked a friend of mine if he had noticed the same thing. The answer: yes.
Perhaps this has something to do with the fact the feminine is the passive, emotional and receptive (if that "evolved," just how the hell did that happen?). Either way, women in general are a lot more confused than men - if men don't lead.
Unfortunately this confirms the ancient wisdom that women don't know what they want, and to never listen to what they and only want they do. And if let to their own devices will destroy society. So, men must always rule.