Another Androsphere Blog writes this (and he has written it several times):
"This is another in a series of posts about men from history who have either achieved great things in one form or another by pushing boundaries: either in themselves or in society or science or exploration of some form. Boundary pushing and growth is what men do, it's their nature: to grow and push outwards. We, as men, are the frontiers men, the first to discover/uncover new territory, in a metaphysical sense (i.e. including both material and the immaterial) that is later colonised and 'civilised' by the rest of humanity."
Notice how boys explore, invent and discover (let's just say I have scars all over me from the things I have done).
So, logically, when boys are not allowed to be boys, there is a good chance they won't grow up to be the kind of men Another Androsphere Blog writes about.
Everyone suffers, most especially the stupid women trying to destroy men.