Tuesday, September 9, 2014

On Not Approaching Women At All

"Chivalry is dead, and women killed it." - Dave Chappele

I sometimes wonder how many women are capable of abstract thought (if they don't they going to have problems telling right from wrong). Apparently those who belong to the Chattering Classes lack the ability, and in a big way.

Let's take false accusation of rape, not talking to women on the street because it's harassment, accusations of sexual harassment at work (happened to me, a friend, and a friend's son). Is everything harassment to some of them? Have they ever read the story of "The Boy Who Cried Wolf"?

Can women use their imaginations? What's going to happen is that men won't approach women at all. Do they want men to tape every interaction with them - wear a lapel camera like many police?

The naive think that it's because women "hate Betas" and want only to be approached by "Alphas." Nope, not even close. I've known two "Alphas" fired by their female bosses because they weren't interested in getting involved with them. I've also known "Alphas" murdered for getting involved with the wrong women.

By the way, they were only "Alphas" in the sense of being popular with women. The correct term for this is "popular with women."

Let's do a thought experiment and imagine if men didn't approach women at all. What the hell are women going to do then? Can't they see into the future at all? Can they even see the present, when the marriage rate is now hovering at a little over 50%?

One of my friends told me he doesn't even see younger men approaching women anymore. Apparently all they do is play video games. I'm not surprised at this development.

The mass of women, of course, are going to blame this problem on men. This mystifies me. They're claiming rape when it doesn't exist, they claim talking to them on the street is harassment, they claim not wanting to sleep with them when they're bosses is sexual harassment...and then they wonder when so many men don't want to get involved with them and would rather play video games?

Just what the hell did they expect? And what are they going to do when they end up without husband, home and children and end up with cats because their ovaries have dried up?

What all of this is about is the attempt to control everything about men. And control means domination and power. And that's nothing good. It is, as I've mentioned before, the Dark Triad for women - power, domination and control.

I am reminded of something Carl Jung noticed: you can have love, or you can have power. But you can't have both.

The attempts at power over others, the attempted domination of them, the attempt to control them - and the response is either flight or fight -MGTOW or PUA.

That is not good for all involved.

It's getting to the point men are going to have to avoid women just to survive. And a lot of women can't seem to figure that out. As for love? Forget it. But power and fear and avoidance? Yep.

I suspect we're going to end up with more MGTOWs than PUAs. One is based on fear and the other on hate. It certainly isn't love, and when men stop loving women, women will quickly realize they're up shit creek without a paddle.

“Practically all the great achievements of man until now have been inspired by his love and devotion to woman." - Nickolai Tesla

22 comments:

Anonymous said...

A huge population culling is going to occur.May we live in interesting times.

Glen Filthie said...

captain capitalism raised another valid point.

When gentlemen like Uncle Bob and others are accused of rape on a daily basis - pretty soon it just becomes background noise. Every time I hear some cunned stunt screaming about it, my first reaction is 'Pull my other chickie, it has bells on it!'

The next question that comes to my mind is - what, exactly, did Uncle Bob do when he raped you? Tell a rude joke? Or my favourite new sex crime - "inappropriate laughter"? Perhaps he made suggestive gestures with a banana?

Who knows? And who cares? My advice to men is to not get involved with feminists or liberal women. Their men are bad enough, but the women are just toxic.

Tao Evadendi said...

"What all of this is about is the attempt to control everything about men."

That's it in a nutshell. If you think it's bad for men now, just wait. Ever more misandric laws and policies will be pushed and passed. The majority of women are narcissistic sociopaths.

Women make the babies, folks. Men opting out is going to strengthen women's resolve to destroy men's lives. Why? Hades hath no wrath like that of a woman scorned.

Here are your choices: (1) get married and destroyed, or (2) stay single and get destroyed. It's not a question of if you'll get destroyed, it's a question of when.

You have zero rights after being accused of rape, sexual harassment or DV. Any accusation is result in your immediate termination/expulsion.

"Yes Means Yes" will be incorporated into VAWA. What does this mean? In the future, if you have no evidence of consent and you piss her off, you go to prison.

Expect cohabitation reform (AKA: Palimony) legislation to be pushed and passed in the near future.

Quartermain said...

From Dark Brightness:

We were saying that one of the virtues of being single is that there is a lot less trouble. Less anxiety. Less need to worry about status. An ability to do what you enjoy, to have hobbies. It seems that a lot of middle aged people have just given up on the dating game because it’s far more peaceful alone.

http://pukeko.net.nz/blog/2014/09/why-the-socail-justice-warriors-will-lose/

Yep, ain't that the truth.

Robert What? said...

It will never happen that men will stop approaching them. What might happen is that the men they might possibly be interested in will stop approaching them. That will leave them just with the "vibrants" as potential suitors.

outdi said...

And it will not change until men wronged by the system retaliate with extreme violence, if that ever happens.

Anonymous said...

Women love power even more than they love the so-called alpha males.

In fact, the only reason they really "love" alpha males is because the association with that man gives the woman access to that power.

It can be thug-power, money power, CEO power, rock star power, whatever kind of power that particular woman is desiring.

This is why AFBB is often misunderstood - women like the association with jerky or thuggish men early on, when they are in competition with other women for good times and adolescent minded social status.

Later, when it is time for houses, lawns, and nice furniture, they change their focus because now the field of competition moves to comparing domestic consumer milestones.



Bob Wallace said...

Someone who understands it's not about Alphas or the Dark Triad - it's about power. And you can either have power, or you can have love. But you can't have both.

Anonymous said...

All the more reason not to deal with women.

I know they are not all like that, but it is just easier to stay away from them regradless.

Signed,

Single and happy.

AAB said...

Bob wrote:
"they claim talking to them on the street is harassment"

You've got that right on the money, and the MSM have proven it just this week with the whole Shoshana Roberts 'Hollaback' non-story. According to the MSM when a working class man compliments a woman it counts as harrasment:

'Ten hours of walking around New York City, 100 catcalls and one huge problem.'
(Source:
http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2014/10/28/walking-in-nyc-as-a-woman_n_6063054.html)

A.B. Prosper said...

Tao, cohabitation has always been unwise. Common law marriage has been around forever. we only got a brief break from it quite recently.

The smart play is to vote for candidates who support you , live separately and go MGTOW when possible.

As the economy implodes it will self correct anyway.

Anonymous said...

"Let's do a thought experiment and imagine if men didn't approach women at all."

Haha that's my dream!!!!!!

Anonymous said...

Men avoiding women is a natural outgrowth of what women have tried to do to men in the last 40 years. But we haven't seen anything yet; a woman deprived of attention will become truly dangerous. Look for laws that financially penalize men for not getting married (already happening in the UK) and bald-face legislation to transfer wealth from men to women by any means necessary. Men: the only thing we can do is 1) don't look at them, 2) don't talk to them, 3) don't work with them, 4) for heaven's sake don't date or marry them, and 4) vote to protect your hard-earned income. If you have to, simplify your life and make less money so she'll have less to steal. That's our only option.

Anonymous said...

Sorry 5) !

Anonymous said...

It's already happening. Men are avoiding women in droves, and women can't do anything about it except come up with idiotic reasons to blame the men. It's just too risky to be involved in any way with a female. Don't work with them, don't talk to them, and for heavens sake don't date them. They are all cost and no benefit. And I think they're too stupid to figure this out and make the changes they need to make. Meanwhile, men are discovering they're much happier single.

Anonymous said...

Rape doesn't happen?! What kind of world do you live in!?

And yes telling women "I would smack that #$@% harder than @#$@" counts as harassment. You don't understand. For women, it is basically a rape threat.

Oh and another thing, there re more single women than men! and almost all of them have careers!

Jim Johnson said...

Enjoy your career, baby.

jadair04 said...

Genesis 3:16 Unto the woman he said, I will greatly multiply thy sorrow and thy conception; in sorrow thou shalt bring forth children; and thy desire shall be to thy husband, and he shall rule over thee.

Some misread this. The womans' desire shall be to ('dominate') thy husband...
Nothing new under the sun. js

jadair04 said...

Genesis 3:16 Unto the woman he said, I will greatly multiply thy sorrow and thy conception; in sorrow thou shalt bring forth children; and thy desire shall be to thy husband, and he shall rule over thee.

Some misread this. The womans' desire shall be to ('dominate') thy husband...
Nothing new under the sun. js

Bob Wallace said...

"Oh and another thing, there re more single women than men! and almost all of them have careers!"

They have their careers because men created them. In fact, women owe everything to men. About the only thing women can do is have babies.

J.R. Hansen said...

And here I thought it was just me. I've been divorced for over ten years and have no desire to become involved with another woman because I know that it would mean giving in to her needs and desires because she thinks she has somehow been wronged and abused merely by being born a female. This belief has been reinforced by modern feminism and political correctness that is less concerned with empowering women than it is with tearing down men.

Quite frankly I have no use for an equal relationship with anyone, if there is such a thing, which I don't believe there is. There is always a dominant and a submissive role in every relationship, these roles may be reversed but they are never equal.

Lt. Tora James Kyle said...

On that case I choose to stay single. They can take everything from me, even my life, but they cannot take my soul. For my soul belongs to God, who happens to be a man. So there is my victory eh!