My last year and a half in college I lived in a studio attached to a house with 12 girls in it. The girls ranged from beautiful to...the opposite.
The beautiful one once told me seven guys asked her out one weekend. It wasn't only because she was beautiful; she was also friendly. Three of the girls were quite attractive but two were never asked out and the other one was asked out once. They basically sat there like bumps on a log and expected Prince Charming to wander in and sweep them off their feet. They weren't friendly and they were bores.
I was also mystified at the number of girls in class who weren't friendly at all. I got the distinct impression they very much overestimated their attractiveness. Later they turned into the kind who whined about, "Where have all the good guys gone?" I tell them: right where you left them, back in your 20's.
Those sites who claim that all guys want the most beautiful women don't have a clue. A woman who is beautiful and has nothing else...about three times in bed and you can't wait until you to dump her. That's personal experience.
After much experience and thought about this I have come to several conclusions as to how women can be popular with men.
And no, it doesn’t have anything to do with sports. Men don’t expect women to like football or baseball or any other kind of sport.
One thing that does work is to like guns. An old girlfriend of mine once wrote an article for a very popular site admitting she’d had never fired a gun but wanted to. She got over 300 emails from guys wanting to teach her to shoot.
A lot of women get fuzzy-minded about firearms. I know one who, when her teenage son bought a BB gun at a garage sale, frothed and called the police to take it away. The police should have laughed at her and told her to grow up. Best of all is if you own a firearm and know how to use it.
A fair number of women are natural socialists/fascists. They’re wrong. They not only don’t have a side to their story; they don’t even have a story. Universal health care is Commie care and does not work in any country in the world, contrary to liberal lies and delusions. If you’re a women who is a natural socialist give it up. If you don’t you’re trying to destroy society.
It helps to know a little bit about cars, like how to put the oil in. At the least, learn how to check the fluids – the oil, the antifreeze, the brake fluid, the power-steering fluid. Any guy will be very impressed.
I’ve always been amazed at the number of women who mope around expecting a guy to ask them out. It won’t kill you to ask him if he’d like to get a cup of coffee. Otherwise, you might end up with your fifth choice instead of your first one. If that happens, you have no one to blame but yourself.
I’ve known several women who ended up alone – no home, no husband, no children. Others ended with possibly worse. How? They ended up with the wrong guy. The way-wrong guy - because they ended up with their fifth choice instead of their first one.
It helps to know how to cook, or at least make a good sammich.
Actually it might just boil down to five things: friendliness, guns, cars, coffee, sammiches. You can't go wrong with that.