As I've said many times before, there is a lot of delusion in the Manosphere - "thirsty" men fucking "landwhales." That rarely happens. A lot of these landwhales end up with black men because they can't get a white man. They can almost never can get some "Alpha" (sic) to screw them. They're too disgusting.
Do you really think Sean Connery or George Clooney has ever screwed a fat woman? I never have and I'm no "Alpha" (sic). Or that some Wal-Martian female monster is consumed with "hypergamy"? Give me a break.
This article is from JustinAttraction.
It is often assumed that women play the role of “selector” in the dating game. The fact is that women per se are not the selectors. It is the hottest women that are the selectors.
For that matter, the hottest men are also selectors. Both hot men and hot women–in other words, the most sexually desirable members of each gender–are the sexual selectors because a large number of people want to date or sleep with them.
(Note: When I say “hot men,” understand that I am not referring to a man’s physical appearance. “Hotness” for men comes from a variety of factors including personality, the way he carries himself, how he conducts himself in social situations, how he dresses, his hygiene, etc.)
What about the fact that men are more sexually driven than women? Doesn’t this put them at a disadvantage because they “want it” more than women do?
Again, if we look at the hottest men, the men who are the most attractive to the female gender, they do not have an issue when it comes to sexual access. They can either generate sexual opportunities for themselves relatively easily, or they have opportunities coming to them with less effort.
For a wealthy and prominent male celebrity, for instance, there are plenty of women that are willing and eager to sleep with him. Many of these women would happily approach him (at a party or event), thus expressing more interest.
In this situation, it is the woman who is more sexually driven: this is her big chance to sleep with a movie star.
The least attractive men are the most sexually driven–because they have so few options–and this is what makes them overeager whenever a hot woman gives them a little interest.
This creates the illusion that women are the selectors, but what is really happening is that one person is more eager than the other, and as a result, the less eager person has leverage in the relationship.
If the man is less eager (i.e. by being outcome independent, living a powerful life that is more interesting to him than getting the next lay, etc), then suddenly the tables start to turn.