I have found that asking women to make me a sandwich is a good way to judge their character. I've asked women to make me sandwiches and some have thrown fits. Others quite willingly do so, and in fact enjoy it.
The last one who threw a fit is unmarried, never will be, and not is not only without husband, is also without children and home. Just an apartment and a high-paying make-work "career." She is not happy.
The shortest and best description I have encountered about the difference between men and women is the Taoist one: "Yang protects Yin and Yin nurtures Yang." Women are supposed to nurture and support men,
I once met a married woman, decades ago, who told me when her husband got home from his blue-collar job, she had a hot bath waiting for him and a hot dinner. She told me she enjoyed doing this.
I also know a woman who told me her idea of play is to cook, clean and knit. And she's far from stupid.
Many men and women today have lost their way. The government has a lot of do with it. Feminism (which is leftist) could have never taken root without the State enforcing it. Because "equal."
If the government had stayed out of interfering in relationships, things would be a hell of a lot better. Man could still be providers and protectors and women could be supporters and nurturers.
My experience has been women are far more lost than men.