The first defense people engage in is to blame their problems on other people. Sometimes it's called scapegoating but it's generally know as projection. It is not only a huge problem but is the worst problem in history.
I am reminded of a scene in the movie Jaws where two boys are caught pretending to be sharks. One immediately points to the other and says, "He made me do it!"
People who project believe other people are responsible for their feelings.
My experience, and I believe the experience of the world, is that many women blame their problems on men. For example, in the year 2010 I had two women tell me, "Men are responsible for all the problems in the world." That was 2010, not 1968.
Both were middle-aged spinsters - no home, no husband, no children. Just a cat and a "career." To them, the fact they lacked these things was men's fault. Then they got permanently hostile.
Feminism, which is not a good thing and has done far more harm that good, is based on "Everything is men's fault." Specifically, everything is the fault of white, Western men.
"Everything is men's fault" is why there is such denigration of men, including such insults as "Dead White Males," slave-owning Founding Fathers, etc. You know the drill.
I suspect the reason women are far more likely to blame their problems on men than vice-versa is because women are far more ruled by their emotions than men. And that makes many of them not particular rational (I'd estimate maybe 10% of women are actually rational).
It's a pretty nasty crack, but what Jack Nicholson's character, Melvin Udall, said about understanding women in As Good As It Gets, is true: "I think of a man, and I take away reason and accountability."
What we've got here is men being held accountable for their behavior but women not being held accountable for theirs. Worse, men are only responsible for their behavior but also for women's.
When people aren't held accountable for their behavior they turn back into children. At the worst they turn into babies. And when one group is held accountable for another group, the former get resentful toward the latter. Which is why we have the Manosphere.
What to do? Since men created civilization and culture, men civilize women, not the other way around. It was George "Daffy Duck" Gilder who popularized the meme that women civilize men. Boy, did he get that one wrong.
Since men have failed in civilizing women (by deferring to their whining for the last 40 years) the culture has gone backward morally while going forward technologically.
Logically, then, men should not listen to women who are a) hostile, who b) whine and who c) blame their problems on men, which means putting them down.
I doubt things are going to change until there is a major societal collapse (it's because the mass of people are stupid). But collapse it will, and change it will.