tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8497093028548856666.post3292276911184329277..comments2024-03-22T11:14:05.861-04:00Comments on UncleBob's Treehouse: "Alphas" as GammasAnonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16046202647270439670noreply@blogger.comBlogger12125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8497093028548856666.post-70113528033784742922015-02-23T19:32:35.094-05:002015-02-23T19:32:35.094-05:00After reading up on what represents a gamma it see...After reading up on what represents a gamma it seems they have three common traits.<br /><br />Narcissism, neurosis, and victimhood.<br /><br />And women seem to have many of these personality traits as well. When a man displays these that makes him 'gamma'. Nobody likes it when a man goes all in with those personality traits. Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16190484330802907362noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8497093028548856666.post-81819572411305885782015-02-23T18:31:38.057-05:002015-02-23T18:31:38.057-05:00The PUA's do have some useful things to teach...The PUA's do have some useful things to teach. I've used maintain the frame, "disinterested game." "dread game" and a few of the others in normal social settings. <br /><br />I seem to have it down well enough since a female relation of mind said "If you ever marry, AB your wife will probably be complaining to her girlfriends and wondering if you love here." <br /><br />Nicest thing I've heard in a long time.<br /><br />Anyway as 11:15 noted most people are a bit of all traits and IMO mostly being Alpha is about image. <br /><br />Now as to what Glen said, I wasn't dating age in the 70's but the rebound was known well into the 80's , I wasn't dating than either though and it survived into he 90's <br /><br />I will also say some people do enjoy being without a "relationship" as they call it these days. <br /><br />I know I do. Compared to when I was in love and engaged or actually dating, its pure bliss,<br /><br />It gives me more freedom and much less stress .<br /><br />And if pussy was something I needed and I don't I can always go Craigslist or to a legal brothel to scratch the itch. The later is probably cheaper and is certainly safer than dating too.<br /><br />I do not think being Gamma is bad or that MGTOW is either though getting an education in how women actually are is good for all men. <br /><br />And yeah sure I probably have Gamma traits galore being a sociable High-IQ introvert but I neither hate nor pedastalize women .<br />They are just people who mostly have little in common with me and whose company I do not enjoy very much beyond sometimes the natural psychical reaction to the female form. There are always exceptions of course. <br /><br />Also as far as invisibility goes, I feel sorry for the Gammas who hate it .<br /><br />Being invisible around girls is like a super-power. <br /><br />Its especially nice once you learn three things.<br /><br />1st to turn it off. <br /><br />2nd When visible if you are the quiet type to project a bit of heterosexuality to avoid the want you as gay BF issues and being hit on by gays <br /><br />3rd You learn to listen to what women say when they don't see you. Do that you'll learn more about women than you'll ever want. That was my 1st red pill really.<br /><br />Its not perfect of course, I've actually had to chide women for trash talk at work. <br /><br />"Hey this is work and there is a guy here and possibly customers." a bit of a roll reversal and I suppose very gamma but I found it highly amusing . <br /><br />Basically it boils down to "Relationships are trouble, sex is risky. Is this person going to add enough to my life to make it worth while?" <br /><br />In most cases I'd say no and it fails cost benefit analysis. <br /><br />Many folks experiences will very and a its not my business anyway. <br /><br />On that note the PUA types being sex and game obsessed think the sex is the goal which is simply stupid. <br /><br />The normal healthy family is the goal but what is normal is hard to obtain or maintain and for many, not worth the risk.A.B. Prospernoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8497093028548856666.post-34270610708703971092015-02-23T17:45:58.151-05:002015-02-23T17:45:58.151-05:00I've seen the Rebound, too. Then we had the Ca...I've seen the Rebound, too. Then we had the Catholic School Crazies, who went nuts when they got out of school.Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16046202647270439670noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8497093028548856666.post-39319445951650112612015-02-23T16:25:30.442-05:002015-02-23T16:25:30.442-05:00Well I dunno here, Bob.
I have seen PUA and slut ...Well I dunno here, Bob.<br /><br />I have seen PUA and slut behavior from both men and women - particularly once they've gone through a messy divorce. Back in the 70's we called it 'The Rebound'. <br />Nobody wants to be alone, and people that have been very monogamous for a long time tend to be squirrely when they hit the dating game for the first time in ages. It's natural and forgiveable for the short term, methinks...Glen Filthiehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03256741311142364722noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8497093028548856666.post-938655248432644402015-02-23T16:18:03.802-05:002015-02-23T16:18:03.802-05:00I always waited until women gave me the double-loo...I always waited until women gave me the double-look before I said anything to them.<br /><br />The word "recognize" means "to look twice."Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16046202647270439670noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8497093028548856666.post-17693887302099968882015-02-23T16:04:55.736-05:002015-02-23T16:04:55.736-05:00"Hell, if I was to ask 1000 women to sleep wi..."Hell, if I was to ask 1000 women to sleep with me I'd probably get 20 to say yes. Now that I think about it, that's a pitiful percentage."<br /><br />But your still getting some action. <br /><br />I'm assuming the only women that you approach are ones that you find attractive, if not, oh well..., maybe not so good.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8497093028548856666.post-54221151163107567432015-02-23T13:34:34.663-05:002015-02-23T13:34:34.663-05:00Hell, if I was to ask 1000 women to sleep with me ...Hell, if I was to ask 1000 women to sleep with me I'd probably get 20 to say yes. Now that I think about it, that's a pitiful percentage.Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16046202647270439670noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8497093028548856666.post-14583554705405863662015-02-23T13:29:16.417-05:002015-02-23T13:29:16.417-05:00I see one of the top pua, alfalfa males, Krauser, ...I see one of the top pua, alfalfa males, Krauser, has basically proven that all the alfalfa game stuff is shite. This guy has written a book about a one year experiment with day game. He approached 1000 woman and banged 22 of them. Completely within the bounds of chance.<br /><br />Not only that, but he aint pretty, so it doubles the shite that game can get you over not having good looks.<br /><br />Yet he is still a hero in the pus cult.<br /><br />Laughable.<br /><br />Ah, but some argue, he had 63 dates and he banged 22 of those so his success was a lot higher then 2.6%. Hmm, never seen a scientific expirement worth anything that did not show ALL of the results.<br /><br />Then you have guitar guy, good looking, walking with an empty guitar case asking random women for their phone numbers. Over 60% of the women he approached gave up their numbers. Yet this REAL sociological expirement is never discussed in the realms of the pua's.<br /><br />Geez, I wonder why? DeNihilistnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8497093028548856666.post-91225473072725977742015-02-23T12:33:09.805-05:002015-02-23T12:33:09.805-05:00Are there any peer-reviewed studies and publicatio...Are there any peer-reviewed studies and publications in respected, reputable journals of all of this stuff that is in the manosphere (heartiest, rational male, red pill reddit, dalrock, etc. ) regarding male and female behavior such as alpha, beta, etc.?<br /><br />If not, all of this discussion in the manosphere is just conjecture and a lot of idiocy. People are basing their major life and relationship decisions on this stuff.<br />Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8497093028548856666.post-40053844992484719322015-02-23T11:31:47.332-05:002015-02-23T11:31:47.332-05:00The late Erik von Kuehnelt-Leddihn once wrote that...The late Erik von Kuehnelt-Leddihn once wrote that every square of the earth is continually claimed and reclaimed by God or Satan. I'm beginning to think he's right.Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16046202647270439670noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8497093028548856666.post-76012535586824326372015-02-23T11:27:54.196-05:002015-02-23T11:27:54.196-05:00It's all silliness. I'm rather thankful Bo...It's all silliness. I'm rather thankful Bob, that you're out here hammering this home, week after week. Fighting codependency with codependency doesn't work. To use a religious metaphor, "Can Satan cast out himself? A house divided cannot stand against itself."<br /><br />Using 'Satan' (in this case) as a metaphor for Hubris, hatred, envy, pride and spite, the wannabe Lothario's seem to think being the right hand of the Devil trumps the system when, in actuality, they are simply quite literally becoming the right hand of the Devil---chained to the lifestyle that comes directly from the part of us that holds no moral highground whatsoever. <br /><br />A man with no moral high ground (high ground that he has cultivated HIMSELF through self-discipline and hard work, not the narcissistic, power-hungry high ground), he has no moral fortitude within him to even <b>pretend</b> properly that what he possesses is in anyway 'confidence.'Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8497093028548856666.post-55701374756463580692015-02-23T11:15:02.933-05:002015-02-23T11:15:02.933-05:00This is my beef with the whole Greek alphabet clas...This is my beef with the whole Greek alphabet classification of people. If you take any of these classifications to their logical conclusion without society intervening, you wind up with extremes in behavior that you would call psychotic. Thus, you wind up with either the choice that these classifications are not in fact natural, or you wimp out and call for society to intervene on behalf of alphas to keep them from being killed, which sort of puts a damper on the whole alpha thing. It's all BS, I think.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com